Many male compatriots face this very serious problem. I tried my best and spent a lot of effort to finally get the contact information of the girl I like, but I started to have trouble again. I had the contact information, but I could only let her lie dead in the list, and I couldn't find a topic at all. Talking to her makes me feel really guilty. So how should we solve this problem? How can we talk to girls meaningfully? How can chatting not become the end of the topic? Only by slowly chatting can we get closer to girls. ?
1. Chat from the circle of friends
When you want to chat with a girl, you must do a good job in advance Prepare for work. When you have nothing to do, you can check out her circle of friends. Her circle of friends will reveal many of her hobbies and interests. Everything she shows in her circle of friends can become a topic of conversation between you and her. Girls often post photos on their WeChat Moments. For example, if one day you want to chat with this girl but don't know what to say to her, then you can click on her circle of friends to take a look.
See if he has posted anything new recently. If she posts a selfie of herself, you can start with this photo to see how this photo is different from her usual, and then you can start a wonderful chat based on this photo. If there is nothing different, Likewise, you can also start a chat by complimenting the photo-taking skills.
2. Grasp the girl’s hobbies
When chatting with a girl, you must pay attention to the girl’s interests and hobbies. Both men and women are interested in things related to themselves. You are more interested. If you want a girl to stop being your topic stopper, you need to talk to her more about things she is interested in, so that she will always maintain the enthusiasm for chatting.
The simplest thing is, if this is a girl who likes small animals, you can discuss with her about When it comes to cats and dogs, you can talk about cat breeds, some of the usual habits of cats and dogs, some of your own experiences raising cats and dogs, and even what kind of cat food tastes good; if this girl If you like plants, you can talk more about plants with her. It would be best if you know about some strange species.
3. Chat about more malleable topics
When chatting with a girl, in order to continue chatting with her properly, don’t break the contact, so keep chatting with her When speaking, be sure to avoid the one-question-one-answer model. The one-question-one-answer model is a very rigid model, and the end of the answer means the chat is over. Therefore, you should choose some stretchable topics to avoid the topic being ended quickly. Let girls have something to say, and let girls' answers not only be limited to yes or no, but they can answer independently.
And oneThe most important thing when chatting with a girl is not to limit her answers.
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