For boys, it is normal for boys to fail in pursuing girls, but sometimes it is also difficult to make up their mind to give up, because boys cannot tell whether a girl’s refusal is a genuine refusal or a rejection. Talking about girls is a polite way of saying it. For example, if a girl says not to waste time on her, is it really hopeless? Let’s analyze the psychology of girls saying this for everyone.
1. Girls issue good guy cards
Sometimes girls want to reject a boy, but they feel that rejecting the boy directly would seem too ruthless, because girls actually treat people who like them. I'm still very soft-hearted. Although I won't accept it, I don't want to hurt it. What should I do? Then find a reason "for your own good"! For example, don't waste time on her. This way the girl will look more noble, a bit similar to the good guy card. The chance of catching a girl if you persist is not impossible, it's just very slim.
2. Girls are testing you
In fact, some girls are really confused when it comes to relationships. , especially for girls who have never been in love, or girls who have been deeply hurt by relationships and have not yet gotten over the shadow of broken love, it is impossible for them to easily get into a relationship. They will go through repeated temptations and a series of tests to see if this An Naishai is the person she is really looking forward to. It can only be said that sometimes girls are duplicitous. Maybe they want to test whether you are sincere, or maybe they themselves She is also confused, and she wants you to be more tolerant of her past and future... If you like her enough, then it doesn't matter if you waste a little time. Maybe you can wait until you meet her?
Three, girls don’t want to fall in love yet
@有莳一丁丝: Because I just broke up, I received It was a huge blow and I felt like I had lost the ability to love, so when he asked me to try getting along with him, I declined him because I couldn’t forget my ex and was unwilling to lose him as a friend (just all kinds of excuses, what do you mean? We are friends and we are not suitable, and you are half a year younger than me and it is not suitable). As a result, he ended up saying, "Anyway, there are no other stalking boys around you, so I will stay with you until you want to fall in love." "He will naturally come to me" routine. Through his perseverance in accompanying him, I am now with him.
Anyway, if you really like this girl and feel that you have enough time and patience to wait for her, then accompany her to slowly walk out of the shadow of the previous period. How should I say, even if She didn't end up with you in the end, but during the time you spent with her, you will definitely leave a very special and special place in her heart. Girls really have a soft heart.
So, girls say not to waste time on herThere may still be a chance, the key is whether you are willing to spend some time on her, to impress her, to attract her.
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