Generally speaking, men and women have a sense of propriety in their interactions, and they ask questions based on the relationship. Only those who don’t understand propriety will ask questions that are not within the scope of the relationship. So what does it mean if a girl who knows how to behave asks a boy's personal questions? Let me analyze for you the inner thoughts of girls asking these questions.
1. Girls trust you more
Generally, those who can ask boys more intimate questions are basically familiar with the boy, although it cannot be said that they have 100% feelings for the boy. Interested, but at least she is a friend whom she usually trusts. She is curious about issues about the opposite sex, but is embarrassed to ask in public, so she finds a person of the opposite sex with whom she has a close relationship to get to know her. This is the normal routine.
In this case, you must have chatted with girls often before, and maybe even made appointments to have dinner together. Already belongs to the category of iron buddies. There are some questions about men that she is embarrassed to ask others, but she is not embarrassed to ask her best friend. That's why she comes to ask you. She has no other meaning.
2. Girls are testing you
Of course, going further, if a girl asks you more private questions, it may be that the girl is your potential admirer, or she is your boyfriend or girlfriend. Relationship, she is interested in these private issues of yours, as long as they are related to you, so the girl will come up with such questions to test you to see how you react and whether you will tell her. Or maybe this is a girl's desire to control and explore her boyfriend, wanting to know more about her boyfriend, wanting to know some of his usual hobbies, or just some little hobbies.
If you are also interested in a girl in this case, then try to find your own advantages and tell her about them. If she shows you your good side, her impression of you will become better and better. If you are not interested in a girl, then you can keep your distance from her and tell her, "It is not convenient for me to share this matter at this stage." The girl will understand what you mean.
3. Girls lack the concept of boundaries
Some girls lack the concept of boundaries and will ask some private questions about household registration checks after they have just met a boy for a few days. For example, ask what your parents do for a living, how many houses your family has, how many exes you have, why they broke up, etc. If you feel that your relationship with a girl is not yet to the point where you can share everything, but you think you can still try to get in touch with her, then you can choose to reject her tactfully, for example:
"I feel that our current level of communication is not enough to share such intimate things with each other. We can put this topic aside for a while and wait until we get to know each other later.When we have known each other for longer and understand each other more deeply, let's talk about this topic again. ”
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