Chatting is very fatal for most boys, not to mention straight men. In the world of straight men, you can chat if you have something to do, and if nothing happens, just play with yourself, so this is why many straight men cannot find someone to talk to. The reason for getting to my girlfriend. Today, the editor will focus on this situation and bring you how straight men chat with girls. Come and take a look. I hope it can help you.
First, don’t think too much, silence is not terrible, don’t rush to break the embarrassment.
When two people chat until they have nothing to say, forcing the conversation to continue will only make things worse. Don’t worry, wait a moment and see if the other party has anything to talk about.
As soon as she opens her mouth, pick up the conversation and talk more about this topic, and the other person will think you are very considerate. When a quiet situation arises, be sure to appear relaxed. If the other person looks at you very naturally, she will think you are very stable.
So when chatting with anyone, treat them with a normal attitude. If you have nothing to say, don’t be embarrassed.
Second, be sure to leave room for the other party to speak, and do not deny the other party.
I have a friend who was having dinner with a new friend. He mentioned that a certain female star was so thin and her clothes were very good. He opened his mouth and said: "Those are all pictures of p. In life, they are normal." There is no difference between people. If someone is 170cm tall, how can you compare with them?"
Try to keep a calm attitude, communicate with others calmly and rationally, and don’t always feel that you are right.
Third, affirmation and praise.
For example: There are so many people, why go out? People who do this are so stupid and basically hopeless. When chatting with others, they have to deny others and make others uncomfortable.
If you don’t know how to chat, you can follow the other person’s words, smile more, affirm her views, and then find some characteristics of her to praise,
For example: When she orders a dish, you can say: "You are so good at ordering. Are you responsible for ordering when your friends go out?" The other party will be very happy.
We don’t necessarily have to be the person who dominates the topic in order to show our own strengths. If you affirm and praise others more, you can at least leave a comfortable impression on others.
Fourth, continue the conversation based on the other person’s preferences.
When I go out to work with a colleague I just met, I don’t know what to say, and it’s not good to just play with my mobile phone. We have to work together in the future.
You can take the initiative to open up the topic, or take the initiative to do her a little favor to bring you closer together. When you meet for the first time, if you don’t understand each other, you should pay attention to the characteristics of each other, and then find out the clues that can be talked about.
If it is an online chat, you can first look at her circle of friends to see what she is interested in, and then chat.
Fifth, discover in time that the other party does not want to chat.
When chatting with the other party, ending the chat in time when you feel it’s time to end is the most important way to make people feel comfortable while chatting.
When the other party recalls the process of chatting with you, they will think that you are an informed person.
When chatting with someone who has a lot of work at hand, stop talking during working hours. The other person will definitely think that completing the work is the most important thing, so you should also be savvy and end the chat as soon as possible.
Even if you really want to chat with the other person, you should terminate the chat. Don’t feel sorry for it, and leave a good impression on the other person that you know how to do it.
The above 5 skills are very practical, so have you learned it? It doesn’t matter if you haven’t learned it, just save it and read it several times, come on~!
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