When a girl takes the initiative to tell you that she can't sleep at night, boys will feel a little upset in their hearts. So how should they respond to the girl at this time? The specific reply still needs to be judged based on time.
1. Before it’s time to go to bed, girls say they can’t sleep
When it’s still early, girls say You said: Can’t sleep. Then the meaning here is obviously that she is bored and wants you to chat with her or ask her out!
At this time, you can respond with a reply like "I will chat with you". Chat with her casually and help her relieve her boredom.
Or "Would you like to go have something to eat together?" Take the opportunity to ask her out.
Or "I can't sleep because I've been thinking about you."
At this point in time, when a girl tells you that she can't sleep, it's actually a sign of her dependence on you. She must have a good impression of you in her heart, and I hope you can accompany her and continue chatting with you. At this time, if you reply with the sentence "I can't sleep because I've been thinking about you", it will not only touch her heart, but also indirectly express your feelings and let her understand your feelings.
2. During bedtime, girls say they can’t sleep
If girls are at the point where they want to sleep, give them You texted her that she can't sleep. What she wants to express is that she is worried or in a bad mood. At this time, what we have to do is to listen to her patiently, comfort her carefully, tell her jokes, and make her happy. etc.
Therefore, you can directly reply to her, "Are you worried? Don't keep it in your heart, I can be your tree hole." Such a divine reply can not only increase her favorability in her mind, but also increase her popularity. Find out in her words why she is unhappy and unable to sleep, and use the opportunity to enlighten her.
3. It’s already very late and the girl says she can’t sleep
If it’s already very late, after He told you the usual time for her to sleep, and then sent you a message that she couldn't sleep. This must mean that she has insomnia. After all, life is very stressful nowadays, and insomnia has become a normal condition for many people.
Therefore, there is not much we can do at this time. The most we can do is think of ways to solve her insomnia, so we can reply "Relax a little and try counting sheep to see if you can fall asleep." or "Think of it." Something happy." After all, counting sheep and thinking about happy things are better solutions to insomnia.
Of course, in addition to these two common replies when a girl suffers from insomnia, there is also a magical reply that can bring the relationship closer, and that is "Would you like to hear me tell you a story?"
< p> Listening to bedtime stories, many people may think that it is a treat only for children. If a girl tells you that she can’t sleep because she’s lostWhen sleeping, you can try telling her a bedtime story. On the one hand, it relaxes her mood and helps her sleep. On the other hand, it also lets her understand that you love her very much and will treat her as your own baby. At the same time, telling stories is also a kind of companionship. When she is lonely at night, having your warm voice lingering in her ears will make her familiar with your company, remember your voice, and accept your feelings. So, if a girl tells you that she can’t sleep, try telling her a story!
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