Sometimes you think that a girl likes you, but after confessing her love, you realize that you are overthinking it. Although the girl usually chats happily with you or has frequent contact with you, she only treats you as a friend. That’s all, I have no intention of being with you at all. So how do you tell whether a girl likes you or treats you as a friend?
How to tell whether a girl likes you or just treats you as a friend?
1. Definition of identity
If you have been in contact with a girl for a long time, she will usually give you Define an identity, it may be an ordinary friend, it may be a confidant, if it is more intimate, it may be a couple.
However, there is also a trap in the definition of identity. If a girl says to you, "You make me feel very special. No one has ever treated me as well as you." Then there is a high probability that she will. I like you.
And if a girl says to you, "You make me feel very special. No one has ever been as good to me as you are. You are like my brother." Then she probably doesn't like it. you.
If a girl only says how important you are to her, but does not define your identity, it means that you and her have many possibilities. If she directly defines you as her brother, then her subtext It's just that you can't be a couple.
Therefore, don’t think that it is a good thing for a girl to treat you as her brother. This is actually an upgraded version of the good guy card.
I know that it is really uncomfortable to be treated as a good person card by a girl. After all, I treat girls with 100% sincerity in exchange for love, not a cold good person card. If you are tired of the feeling of always being rejected by girls and want to experience that sweet love, then you can add to chat with me privately at any time. help you.
2. Quickly determine if the relationship is a bad one
If you have a good chat with a girl, she The response to you is also very good, and the relationship between you is just short of breaking through the window paper. However, at this time, the girl suddenly says to you, "I have been hurt by others, and now I no longer believe in love." Or say to you, "I still can't forget my ex and don't want to start a new relationship." This is actually to prevent your relationship from developing further.
Many boys think that girls are insecure, so they try their best to prove to girls that they will protect her and prevent her from getting hurt again. In the end, girls still won’t accept you. After all, if girls really If you really want to be with you, she will digest the shadows of the past by herself, instead of throwing such a difficult problem to you at the critical moment.
3. Reaction to rumors
If you are close to a girl, you will usually be misunderstood by your friends. At this time, you can judge from the girl’s reaction to the rumor. Does a girl like you? If a girl says to you, "My friend said that I come to see you every day and thinks you are my boyfriend. Do you think they are gossips?" or "My friends saw us walking together yesterday and thought you were my boyfriend." My friend, it’s really funny.” Many boys think it’s a joke when they hear this. In fact, she is more likely to treat you as a brother, because she denies this behavior in her words and treats these rumors as a joke.
In fact, if a girl really likes you, her heart is very subtle. Usually she likes you in her heart, but she dare not say it out loud. How could she treat these rumors to you as a joke? Saying it like this can only mean that she has no thoughts about you.
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