Although many couples love each other very much, they feel very tired together because they do not have a correct set of rules for getting along. If a relationship between couples wants to be long-lasting and stable, they must have a correct set of rules for getting along. Below, the editor will share with you a set of ten rules for couples to get along.
1. Don’t compare how much two people have put into the relationship, as long as the other person does it and does it with care , it deserves respect. If you can make money, make money, and if you have enough time, do your housework. Just because one person makes more money, you can't think that you are great and can point fingers at another person.
2. When we get along, there will inevitably be conflicts and dissatisfaction with the other party, but if there is a problem, you must solve it. Even if this person may need to calm down in the past few days, even if I don’t want to talk about it at the moment, but wait until After your emotions have calmed down a bit, you must also open up and talk seriously about how the problem should be solved.
3. When you have a dispute, don’t hold on to the idea of ??“this person must listen to me” from the beginning. Since you need to communicate and coordinate with the other party, it’s best to think about it from the beginning. Where can you make concessions? If the other party makes too many concessions, how can you compensate the other party?
4. When it is time to talk about interests, talk about interests. If there is something that requires the other party to compromise, it is best to make it clear from the beginning. You know that doing so will harm the interests of the other party, and you have to compensate the other party. Instead of always talking about feelings, such as "I love you so much, how could you do this" and "If you love me, you should..." - loving the other person is what you should do, not a bargaining chip.
5. Have your own life, have your own pursuits, and don’t regard the other person as everything in your life. She has her work to worry about, and I have my consulting work to be busy with. We still put our career first and will not rely too much on each other.
6. When you encounter any problems when getting along, you will basically communicate with the other party as soon as possible, instead of making random thoughts on your own, or seeking advice from people who do not understand the specific situation.
7. You all have your own interests and hobbies. If the other person cannot accompany you, you will not blame the other person too much. It is completely okay. Use your own interests and hobbies to pass the time.
8. There must be a tacit understanding: the life belongs to two people, and do not let the families of both parties interfere too much. If you are dissatisfied with some of the behaviors of each other's parents, tell the other person and the other person will talk to their parents themselves. The small family comes first, and the intervention of the extended family in the small family must be limited.
9. No matter how busy you are, you must take time to accompany each other. It is not required to stay together every day, but the greetings and care should be given.Not less.
10. Have a plan and direction for the relationship between two people and their life together. After discussing it, the two people will work together in this direction.
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