If you don’t have the habit of looking at your girlfriend’s phone, and you always think that the two of you have a good relationship, not looking at your phone is a sign of respect for each other’s privacy. Suddenly one day, you accidentally clicked on your girlfriend’s mobile phone WeChat and found that your girlfriend was having an ambiguous chat with another boy. What should you do?
1. Control your emotions
When you find that your girlfriend is having an affair with another boy, the most important thing for a boy to do is to control his emotions. Why do you say this? Maybe after you and your girlfriend have been in a relationship for three months, you and her are disgusted with each other. At this time, a boy appears who can give her a happy and sweet feeling, so your girlfriend has an ambiguous chat with him. , and at this time you are making a fuss at your girlfriend. This will make it easy for your girlfriend to make the decision to leave you.
Therefore, if you don’t want to break up with your girlfriend, then control your emotions first. Otherwise, she will think you are terrible, and your high-pressure attitude toward her will make her feel tired and make her want to escape.
Moreover, the girlfriend is still in the ambiguous stage with other boys, and the physical relationship is only in the imagination stage, so it is not particularly dangerous at this time. But your behavior is similar to that of your boyfriend and girlfriend, so you attract attention at this time.
2. Observe quietly
If you find that your girlfriend has been chatting ambiguously with another boy for two days, you are happy to observe quietly to see if there is any continuation between you. The only possibility is to break up, so the correct solution is:
1. Don’t put pressure on your girlfriend, keep it up Normal dating frequency. (When you make an appointment with your girlfriend, if she says she is busy, you must not question her or make her reluctantly go to the appointment)
2. Give her some small surprises, but don’t act too deliberately. It’s too ceremonial. Otherwise she might think you've discovered something.
3. Master the correct communication methods to make your conversation relaxed and natural, making her feel happy talking to you. (When your girlfriend feels happy chatting with you, how can she have time to find other boys to chat ambiguously with?)
3. Persevere or give up
If you go through the above Observe, if you find that your girlfriend has stopped the ambiguous chat with other boys, and has even deleted or blocked the other boy, then your goal has been achieved and you can win back your girlfriend without making a move.
On the contrary, if you find that no matter how you change, your girlfriend is still chatting and flirting with other boys, it may be You are not far away from environmental protection. In this case, I suggest you talk to her directly about it.This is a problem, and the worst outcome is to turn your back and leave. But before that, you should slowly downplay your attention and affection for her. Talk less about love and less about the future, and show appropriate concern and appropriate rejection. This world is not about anyone. Love yourself first. Instead of thinking about how to win back this woman who has changed her heart, it is better to improve yourself to be relaxed and smooth.
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