Quarrels are inevitable between lovers, and sometimes they arise over trivial matters. After the quarrel, the girlfriend chose to delete WeChat because she needed some time to calm down, or she wanted to give each other some space. As boyfriends, how should we handle this situation? Here are some suggestions.
1. Give the other person time and space
When your girlfriend deletes WeChat, the first thing to do is to give the other person enough time and space. Don't rush to her to explain or apologize, as this will only make her feel more upset. Respect the other person's decision and let her think about the problem calmly.
2. Reflect on your own mistakes
In a quarrel, both parties are often responsible. As boyfriends, we should reflect on whether we have done anything wrong or whether we have words or deeds that hurt our girlfriends. By reflecting on our own mistakes, we can better understand the other person's position and avoid similar problems in future interactions.
3. Active communication
When our girlfriend calms down, we can take the initiative to communicate with her. But when communicating, pay attention to your tone and approach. Instead of blaming the other person or complaining about her behavior, express your thoughts and feelings in a calm manner. At the same time, you should also listen to the other person's opinions and thoughts and respect her feelings.
4. Apology and change
If we make a mistake during a quarrel, we should apologize to our girlfriend in time. But an apology can't just be verbal, it's more important to prove your change through actual actions. Promise to correct your mistakes and make positive changes in future relationships.
5. Re-establish trust
After a fight, your girlfriend may lose some trust because she was hurt. We need time and action to re-establish that trust. Be honest, trustworthy and consistent with your words and deeds. At the same time, you should also give the other person a sufficient sense of security and let her know that she can be relied on.
6. Learn to tolerate and understand
In a love relationship, tolerance and understanding are very important. We should learn to see things from the other person's perspective and understand her thoughts and feelings. When our girlfriend has some irrational emotions or behaviors, we must learn to be tolerant and understanding instead of quarreling with her.
7. Seek professional help
If the problems after the quarrel cannot be solved through your own efforts, you can consider seeking professional help. You can find a psychological counselor or emotional coach to help both parties communicate and solve problems. They will give some suggestions and methods to help us better deal with the situation after the quarrel.
When your girlfriend deletes WeChat after a quarrel, your boyfriend should stay calm, respect the other person’s decision, and take the initiative to reflect on his mistakes. Rebuild trust through communication, apology, and change, while also learning to be tolerant andunderstand. If the problem cannot be resolved, consider seeking professional help. Only in this way can we better handle the situation after a quarrel and make the relationship stronger.
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