In social situations, meeting the person you like is a very happy thing. However, how to continue chatting with him/her is a headache. Next, let’s discuss how to continue chatting with the person you like.
1. Find common topics
Finding common topics is the key to continue chatting. You can start with the other person's speech, behavior, dress, surrounding environment, etc. to find common ground. For example, if you both like traveling, you can talk about where you have been, what fun experiences you have had, etc.
In addition, you can also ask some open questions to guide the other party to expand the topic. For example, "What are you busy with recently?", "What do you think are the fun places in this city?" and so on.
2. Be polite and respectful
During the chat, be sure to remain polite and respectful. Don't use vulgar or offensive language, or belittle the other person's interests or opinions. If the other person puts forward their own opinion, respect the other person's point of view even if you disagree with it.
In addition, you should also pay attention to your expression and tone. Don't communicate in a sarcastic or aggressive manner as this can make the other person feel uncomfortable.
3. Show yourself appropriately
During the chat process, showing yourself appropriately can increase the other party’s interest. However, we should also pay attention to the degree. Don't talk about yourself blindly and ignore the other person's feelings. You can express yourself by sharing some interesting experiences, hobbies or knowledge.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and attitude. Don't exaggerate the truth or brag about yourself as this will make the other person feel uncomfortable.
4. Be good at listening
During the chat process, it is very important to be good at listening. Don't just focus on your own words and ignore the other person's feelings and thoughts. You can express your concern and understanding by responding to what the other person says, asking questions, or giving affirmations.
At the same time, pay attention to body language. For example, eye contact, smiling, nodding, etc. can show that you are listening carefully to the other person's words.
5. End the chat in a timely manner
During the chat process, you should also pay attention to ending the chat in a timely manner. Don't let the other person feel tired or bored. You can end the chat by proposing plans for the next meeting, saying goodbye, etc.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to expressing your gratitude and appreciation. For example, "It's nice to chat with you. See you next time!", "Thank you for sharing so many interesting things. I really enjoy listening to you." etc.
The above are a few tips for continuing to chat with the person you like. I hope everyone can benefit from it and find their own happiness.
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