When it comes to the topic of finding a partner in university, I can't help but share some of my observations and thoughts. Honestly, university is truly the best time for romance, not only because everyone is young and energetic, but more importantly, the cost of dating at this stage is surprisingly low. Eating in the cafeteria, walking around campus, studying in the library—these seemingly ordinary activities become extraordinarily romantic under the lens of love.
I remember a friend of mine who was particularly skilled at pursuing girls during university. He told me that there are indeed techniques to winning over a girl, and the key is to find a method that suits you. For example, he found that he was better at getting along with introverted girls because they are usually quieter and more likely to listen and understand others. On the other hand, extroverted girls, while seemingly attractive, often have many suitors, making the competition fierce and the success rate surprisingly low.
However, I"ve also seen some guys who don't actively pursue girls but instead attract them by enhancing their own appeal. For instance, a senior at university consistently wrote a blog. Although it didn't attract many readers at first, he persisted and gradually accumulated a following, which also caught the attention of several girls. This made me realize that sometimes, focusing on your own career and goals can make you more attractive without even realizing it.
Speaking of careers, I must mention that university is a great place to cultivate personal interests and careers. A senior I knew started a business during university. Although it was tough at the beginning, he persevered and not only achieved success in his career but also found a like-minded girlfriend. This deeply impressed upon me that career success not only brings material satisfaction but also makes you more confident and composed in relationships.
Of course, everyone"s situation is different. Some may be better at taking the initiative, while others may be more suited to attracting others by improving themselves. But no matter what, I think the most important thing is to remain genuine and confident. Don't be discouraged by temporary failures, nor be complacent with temporary successes. Remember, true charm comes from inner strength and persistence towards your goals.
Finally, I want to say that while university romance is beautiful, don"t forget about your studies and future. After all, a truly charming person not only has a rich emotional life but also achievements in their career. So, whether you're single or in a relationship now, don't forget to strive to improve yourself, because only then can you go further on your future path and meet a better version of yourself and a better her.
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