Recently, while chatting with a few friends, the topic of pursuing conservative girls came up, which reminded me of some of my own experiences and observations. Honestly, in this fast-paced era, winning the heart of a conservative girl indeed requires some special skills and patience.
First and foremost, confidence is really important. I remember a friend once told me that he was so nervous during his first date that his palms were sweating and he could barely speak coherently. As you can imagine, that date was so awkward that he wished he could disappear into a hole. Later, he learned to relax himself and used humor and confidence to attract the other person, and the results were significantly better. As the netizen "初慕☂" said: "In this era where everything is fast, I just want to take it slow." Indeed, taking it slow and steady can actually make it easier to win the other person's favor.
Secondly, personal image should not be overlooked. Although looks are innate, a clean and tidy appearance can definitely add points. I once had a classmate who wasn't particularly handsome, but he always dressed appropriately and kept his hair meticulously groomed. As a result? He was never short of female attention. So, instead of worrying about not being handsome enough, it's better to spend more effort on personal hygiene and fashion. After all, no one wants to get to know your interesting soul through a sloppy appearance, right?
Now, let"s talk about the details during dates. When dating a conservative girl, the most important things are respect and thoughtfulness. I remember once going on a date with a guy who had planned out the entire itinerary in advance and even asked for my opinion. This kind of attentiveness and respect made me feel very comfortable. On the contrary, if he had acted too intimately right from the start, like holding hands without permission, it would have made me feel very uncomfortable. Just like the girl mentioned in the article, the moment she pulled her hand away, she was actually protecting her boundaries. As the netizen "郑小妮子" said: "Protecting oneself is never wrong."
Lastly, making more friends of the opposite sex is also very important. This is not just to expand your social circle, but also to make yourself more composed in relationships. I have a friend who met many girls through social apps. Although it wasn't smooth sailing at first, he gradually learned how to interact with girls and express his feelings. Eventually, he found a girl who was on the same wavelength as him, and they are now in a very good relationship.
In summary, pursuing a conservative girl requires patience, respect for the other person"s pace, and continuous self-improvement. As the netizen "智者宇宙RG" said: "The best way to solve problems is for both parties to put effort into the relationship." Only when both parties are making an effort can the relationship go the distance.
I hope these little tips can be helpful to you, and I wish everyone can find someone who is willing to take it slow with you!
