Many times, when a girlfriend gets angry and ignores her, she feels like she can’t be coaxed, and many boys are at a loss what to do. If you still want to continue this relationship, of course you have to find a way to break this state. But your girlfriend simply ignores you and doesn't talk to you. How should you comfort your angry girlfriend in this situation?
1. Buy, buy, buy
Although your girlfriend is angry with you, she will not refuse what she likes. For example, if your girlfriend is a foodie, then buy her delicious food. She can buy whatever she likes to eat. Even if your girlfriend likes hot pot, you can now order takeout for hot pot. If your girlfriend likes makeup, then secretly buy the cosmetics in her shopping cart that she has always wanted to buy but has not bought to make her happy. If your girlfriend has always wanted to go out but has no time, then go online to make a guide, book a hotel, and take her out for fun... After your girlfriend has experienced the things she is looking forward to, how can she still be angry with you? Woolen cloth?
2. Sincerely apologize
If your girlfriend is angry, it must be because you have done something wrong. At this time, A sincere apology is also a good idea. But in this case, you have to tell your girlfriend very sincerely what you did to make her unhappy, and what you will do if you encounter this situation in the future. Note that it is very sincere, not the trick used by many boys to coax girls, nor is it sweet talk. And you do what you say you will do. After all, you and your girlfriend also planned to get along last time, not just coaxing it out this time is enough. Otherwise, if you apologize this time and still make the same mistake next time, and fail to do what you said, it will only make your girlfriend more and more disappointed in you.
3. Let each other calm down
In fact, it is normal for couples to be noisy and occasionally angry. At this time, the girlfriend is angry, and it is good for each other to calm down, so that both parties can reflect on their own problems. Moreover, both parties must be responsible for problems in the relationship. Everyone needs to be aware of their own problems, so that mutual reflection will be conducive to the long-term development of your relationship. After your girlfriend calms down, it will be much easier for you to coax her.
4. Solving principle issues
The above three methods of coaxing a girlfriend are only applicable to girlfriends When you are not particularly angry, it is the kind of situation where a small fight and coaxing can make things better. But if your girlfriend is angry because of some principled issues, your use of the above methods to coax her may not work. If this is the case, only by solving the principle issue first can your girlfriend stop being angry.
For example, if you are playing games with another girl and having an ambiguous voice chat, your girlfriend will find out that she is angry and you step on her.Her bottom line of principles has been compromised, and it will be difficult to coax her out of this situation. First of all, in the first step, you need to delete your game friends and ensure that you will only play games in the future and no longer chat with other girls. Then, at this time, your girlfriend has actually calmed down a little. You need to do something to make her feel sorry for you and make her willing to put down her dignity and ease the relationship with you. For example:
On a hot day, I give my girlfriend a cooling drink or some fruit, but I am sweating profusely but reluctant to let my girlfriend go out to bask in the sun. . Wash clothes by hand in winter to prevent your girlfriend from getting cold.
Of course, it is better to make as few principled mistakes as possible. If you make them too many times, your girlfriend will be disappointed and leave before you can coax her.
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